What would it feel like to live in a world where all the children
had disappeared? To wake up one morning and find only adults?
A horrific thought. Only one thing would be more terrifying:
to discover that nobody cared or that they were powerless
to do anything about it.
The Church
In the 1990s, the Church of England alone lost 28% of its
children - that's more than a quarter in just 10 years. If
this continues, it will have no children left by 2030. The
final generation will have vanished.
Of course, it won't come to that - probably. Institutions
have a way of pulling back from the brink, even at the last
moment. But no-one should fool themselves: the situation is
dire. For every 100 children who were in Sunday School in
1930, there are only 9 today. Already, over 40% of the churches
in all denominations have no children's or youth work. And
the children in the remainder are mostly those of church members.
The vast majority of the nation's children have little or
nothing to do with the Church.
So what is to be done?
The first thing is to face reality. For
too long, the churches have been in denial. They have continued
as if nothing had changed: that somewhere there was a flock
of youngsters hidden from view who would suddenly appear
to swell the ranks of ageing congregations. Only now is
the starkness of the situation starting to be admitted.
Secondly, churches will need to develop
denominational strategies for halting and reversing decline.
Congregational action will be vital but until denominations
are willing to think through their strategies, decline will
only be halted in pockets.
Thirdly, there must be a culture
change across the life of the Church. If it is to win back
the children of the future, it must become a place where
they want to be. This will mean adults deliberately choosing
to create environments conducive to children and their development.
The most obvious changes will need
to take place in worship. At present, most services are
designed by adults, for adults. Where there are concessions
to children, they are usually on adult terms, according
to what adults think children want or need. Only rarely
do worship planning teams or clergy consult children before
they design their programmes. But why not? Including children
in a discussion of worship or as part of a planning team
is not difficult, provided it is thought through. And it
is an excellent way of developing future leaders.
Fourthly, - crucially - the Church
must be unequivocal about children's evangelism. It will
not be enough simply to talk about children's ministry.
Only a confident re-telling of the story of Jesus, in the
expectation that children will want to give their lives
to him, will renew the ranks of a greying Church. Without
this, the twenty-first century looks bleak.
As Bishop Gavin Reid has commented "No
children can only mean no future." If the Church is to
avoid demographic meltdown, it has no choice but to act. And
the time to act is now.
Revd Dr Francis Bridger is Principal of Trinity College, Bristol
and author of Children Finding Faith (Scripture Union/CPAS,
2000)